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Mate: Friend — and an all-purpose word for addressing nearly anyone. Pronunciation: mayt (in NZ, often closer to 'meht' to Australian ears).
"Mate" means friend, but in New Zealand it's also social glue: the word you use for the courier driver, the plumber, an old friend or someone whose name you've just forgotten. "Cheers mate", "good on ya mate", "you right there, mate?" — it keeps interactions warm without being familiar.
The Kiwi mate has moods. "Good on ya, mate" is genuine praise. "Maaate" stretched long is delight or sympathy. A short, flat "mate" can be a warning — the verbal equivalent of a raised eyebrow. And "a good mate" is one of the highest compliments in the language: someone who shows up, helps you move house, and shouts a round without keeping score.
Kiwis and Aussies will forever argue about who says it more (and whose accent mangles it worse — the NZ "meht" vs the Aussie "maaayte"), but in NZ it shares the stage with bro and cuz, giving Kiwi English three warm ways to call someone a friend.
"Mate" arrived with British and Irish settlers — from the old Germanic sense of a companion you share food with — and took deep root across Australasia. In New Zealand it settled in alongside "bro" and "cuz" as the everyday word for a friend, and as the standard friendly address between strangers.
Related NZ slang: Bro | Cuz / Cuzzy | Good as gold | Chur